Sunday, March 9, 2014

bullying vs. teasing

Joe Booker

            There is definitely a difference between teasing and bullying. Teasing can be between friends and family who know the child on a personal level. For example me and my dad always tease each other it’s not bullying we love each other it’s just us poking fun at each other. But if someone who didn’t know me very well were to call me names or push me it would be bullying.  The main way a teacher can determine when a student being bullied is intent. When children are friends it’s just teasing but when students go out of their way to hurt someone else because they don’t like them it is bullying. If the intention is just to make the other person laugh it is all in good fun. Hurting someone morally and making the other children around them laugh is bullying. Teachers have to intervene if the situation at hand is bullying and even if it is teasing the teacher should still make sure the student is comfortable with what is going on. If it is bullying or teasing the child that it is directed towards is the judge of what it is and should feel comfortable with what the other person is saying. If the child is not comfortable with what is being said the teacher has to be direct and tell the bully that what he is doing is wrong and that they need to stop. If it still continues higher level punishment should be put in order and parents should be called to make notice of the situation. By telling the parents it puts another set of eyes on the children making different viewpoint on certain situations making it easier to find a solution to the problems.

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